Creepy? Sketchy?

The person is about 40 years older than me. A foreign male. Thus, the title.

I now blocked the person on all platforms and hope that he will never find me again. I should have shut off this person a long time ago, but I was too nice. My job required me to be approachable and welcoming, and I could be extra friendly to people because I want them to feel supported to work at the institution.

I guess some people took it the wrong way. They took it as if I am so soft and kind, and they could say whatever they wanted to me.

Well, too bad. I have learned from my past mistake, and I can only stay silent for so long.

The screenshot showed the latest messages from this person after I informed them that I am no longer working at the institution.

Referring to the screenshot, where he said I ended the conversation quickly. I did so because this person was texting me after work hours, and I like having a clear time boundary between work people and my after-work self, even if we are not talking about work. I like staying away from screens after work, and this person made me feel bad that I set my boundary. I don't care about his serious discussion. It could happen during work hours if needed, but nope. He would only text me after work hours when I was trying to rest and do chores. [Red flag]

The thing that bothered me most is where he uses the words - Not girlfriend/boyfriend. It makes me want to throw up. He did not need to use those terms at all. I still feel so disgusted seeing the words and this conversation.

A note to self - I have to be pickier when it comes to whom I can be friendly with. I need to create boundaries for myself.